Want to Flirt With the Hottest Girls in the Venue?
By Max Rayburn
Girls love dressing themselves up and looking good when they go out to social atmospheres such as nightclubs and bars. As a guy, some nights you may notice a plethora of gorgeous women, while other times the venue will be empty. However, most nights, regardless of the crowd, the HOTTEST girls will be the ones working there! This includes bartenders, bottle service girls, and waitresses. If you want to interact with the hottest women, learn to talk to the ones working! They are hired to be social and beautiful. However, there are many differences between communicating with a bartender/waitress/bottle service girl and a regular girl out to have fun.
Bartenders, waitresses, and bottle service girls are referred to as "hired guns" in the dating world. If you want to flirt with hired guns, you must always be aware that these girls are hired for their looks and are paid to be nice to you. Don't always take it as a sign of attraction if you think an interaction is going well, because they are working for a tip. So always remember that they are trying to get money from you most of the time. How can you tell the difference between attraction or just selling? There are many aspects, but some may be her asking you questions that are related to your life and not related to your food/drink order, giving you extra food or alcohol with no charge, and asking what your plans are for that night or later.
Remember there are some easy mistakes to fall into when flirting with hired guns. One is annoying her. Many guys will blatantly flirt with a hired gun and annoy them, but the girl cannot get mad because her tip is on the line. If you cross this boundary, you will only get fake and forced attraction that is only based on her getting a tip from you. You never want to annoy a hired gun if you are trying to do more than become her customer.
There are a lot of other factors that play into successful flirting with hired guns. The key component in interacting with hired guns is to remember they are paid to be nice to you. You must also remember to not cross their line, because they deal with annoying guys on a nightly basis. Even if you are not trying to date a hired gun, talk to them anyways! It will only enhance your social proof in the venue and maybe score you a free drink!
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