One Powerful Frame To Hold When Interacting With Attractive Women

By George Hutton

There's an old saying:

"Women aren't meant to be understood, they're meant to be enjoyed."

Do you believe that?

Most guys spend their time trying to find out how women "tick," so they can come up with advanced techniques to "game" them.

But what if, instead of trying to "game" them with some kind of intention, you merely enjoyed them.

When talking to them, you didn't worry about the outcome, or what she was going to say to this or that.

You just enjoyed them. You allow them to be themselves, and you felt comfortable to be yourself.

Not the nice guy that's trying to "move her emotions," just a confident guy, comfortable in his own skin.

See, if you have an intention, and that intention doesn't come true, you feel let down. If you're intention is to get her number, and you don't get it, you feel as if you've failed.

But what if you have no intention, other to enjoy speaking with her, interacting with her, and whatever else comes?

If you're openly enjoying her, she's going to be feeling some enjoyment with you.

Guaranteed.

You know this.

Paradoxically, this will make getting her number a lot easier.

"Hey, I really enjoy talking to you. Give me your number so we can hook up later."

You say this openly and honestly after a mutually enjoyable, and enjoyed conversation?

This is the fundamental secret of being successful with women. Most guys feel that they have nothing to offer and they need to somehow qualify themselves to girls.

Unless you're super rich or famous or some kind of rock star, this likely won't work.

But just think of the presuppositions when you simply enjoy her. Before you enjoy her, you've got to think of yourself as an equal to her. You can't really enjoy somebody that you think has the power to give or take away pleasure or pain.

At the same time, you respect her for what she is, and what she has to offer. Since you're interacting with her, and not just starting at her from across the room, this also presupposes that you enjoy her personality.

Compared to most other guys who accept her before even knowing her personality, you're sending her a powerful message that goes way beyond most other guys.

You are comfortable in your own skin, and you enjoy her personality beyond just her looks.

Naturally, she will find this, and everything else about you incredible attractive.

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Is There Really Such A Thing As A Nice Guy?

By George Hutton

Girls hate nice guys and love jerks.

Right?

Sort of.

See, nice guys aren't really nice guys. They're "scared" guys. Whenever you're about to say something, or want to say something, but hold back because you are worried what the other person might think or say, you automatically put yourself in the "nice guy" category.

But "nice" really means, "overly safe." Why are these guys repulsive to women? They want a guy who isn't afraid of society. They want a guy that can hold his own. Some guy that can't even express themselves honestly to her already fails big time.

Now, why do jerks get so much action? Because they don't hold back. They don't base their communication and expression based on what other people might think. Well, actually they do.

They are afraid of a certain reaction, most likely rejection, and believe it or not, they use the same strategy as the nice guy.

Nice guys are afraid of rejection, so they say "nice things" that won't get rejected.

Jerks are also afraid of rejection, so they say "mean things" that won't get rejected. They're really two sides of the same coin.

Both are scared little boys deep down inside. They just have different strategies for making sure their fears are never realized.

How To Escape?

To get out of this no-win dichotomy, simply refuse to let anybody reject you.

She says she likes cats. You like dogs. Big deal. You both like different things. If she says you're an idiot for liking dogs, and laughs at you, who's the real idiot?

Here's a real world, common example.

Flaking, or showing up late.

Nice guy reaction:

Tells her it's OK. Wants to show her how patient he is. Pats himself on the back for being so virtuous.

Jerk Reaction:

Yells at her for an hour, makes her feel like crap.

Alpha Male:

After ten minutes, leaves. Figures if she's not interested in him enough to show up on time, she's not worth pursuing.

How do you become an alpha male? Simply express yourself, and allow others to respond to you. Don't try and change anybody. Just be always on the hunt for people who appreciate you for who you are. If they do,cool. If they don't, no biggie. There's plenty more.

Now, depending on how comfortable you are in your own skin, this can take a while to become unconscious and automatic.

No worries. Just take your time. Developing a true alpha mindset is one of the crucial things you can do in your life. It's not going to happen overnight.

But if you keep focusing on your interactions with the world, you will slowly move in this direction.

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The Incredible Power Of Curiosity To Get Her Incredibly Interested In You

By George Hutton

Most guys see a girl, and try and think of the right thing to say, in order to get a certain result.

Don't get me wrong, if you've five or six good openers, that are well polished, you'll do better than most guys.

But there's another way that's much better.

Curiosity.

Not hers, yours.

Let's face it. Hot girls are hit on all day long. On top of that, guys are staring at them all day long, so they always feel the sex crazed stares of pretty much every guy around.

And what are most guys thinking? "Damn, I'd like to tap THAT!"

So she feels, in most part, like a piece of meat.

(Don't worry, I'm not gonna get all touchy-feely on you!)

How do you set yourself apart? Become genuinely interested in her.

Not just interested in how long she'll last in the sack, but in her personality.

See, most girls won't feel comfortable banging you unless she feels comfortable, really comfortable, talking to you.

Memorized patterns can only take you so far.

But asking honest questions, about her, fueled by your honest curiosity?

This will open doors, legs, and everything else.

How do you generate this curiosity?

Just like everything else, if you want to get good at something, you've gotta practice.

Hang out somewhere where there's plenty of cuties.

Then just wonder things about them. Pick one girl to focus on. (Be careful not to vibe some kind of stalker feel)

What's her personality like?

What's her favorite Chinese food?

What kinds of books does she read?

Just get yourself wondering about her. Don't try and answer.

The point is to practice getting curious about people.

So later, when you're talking to cute girls, you'll be genuinely interested in her. You'll be asking her questions, follow up questions, and sharing similar stories.

And as Dale Carnegie always taught, become interested in other people is the quickest way to get them interested in us.

Now, as simple as this sounds, some girls, and some guys, may be put off by this approach. Why?

Because plenty of us have these really thick outer shells. We think we are protecting ourselves. Believe it or not, many of us believe, on a deep level, that there is something "wrong" with us. So if you come on too strong, too fast, some folks may be worried that you'll discover some deep dark secret about who they are.

Just go slow, and as you're expressing those ideas of curiosity, pay close attention to their body language. So long as they're open, you're OK.

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