How To Tell If She's Into You And Worth Pursuing

By George Hutton

Which would you rather be doing, chasing a woman, or enjoying a woman. While it's true that women love to be chased, there's a thin line, in a woman's mind, between being chased, and being stalked.

If a guy they like is pursuing them, they'll love it. If a guy they loathe is pursuing them, they'll call the cops. The trick is to find out which category you are in, in her mind, so you don't end up wasting time, money or getting a restraining order.

Before we start, you'll need to develop a certain mindset. First of all, there's no such thing as a "soul mate." Many guys and girls fall into this trap because the object of their desire doesn't reciprocate their affection. Guys buy into the idea of a soul mate to justify spending half their lives carrying a torch for somebody who's already forgotten about them.

The truth is that there are plenty of women out there that would satisfy your criteria. All you've got to do is pull away from that emotional gravitational pull and see them. When you're emotionally attached to a woman, it's easy to not see the signs. It's easy to convince yourself that you actually have a chance.

So, how do you know, objectively, if you have a chance or not? If she makes any kind of effort to be with you, that's a good sign. If you're doing all the work, it's time to cut and run. It's that simple.

A girl who's really into you will move heaven and earth to see you, talk to you, and sleep with you. A girl that could take or leave you will only see you, talk to you, or sleep with you when it's convenient to her.

When you have conversations with her, does she ask you questions about you, your life, your interests? Or does she only talk about herself?

Take an objective look at your phone and texts. Does she call and text you as often as you call and text her? Does she only call you when you call her first? Does she only text you when you text her first? A good test, if you're not sure, is go "one way contact" for a couple weeks. Only talk to her, or text her, if she initiates the conversation.

If you stop calling her, and she never initiates a call or text, you've got a clear signal that it's time to move on.

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