What Exactly Is "Chick Logic" Anyway?

By George Hutton

Are girls illogical, and boys logical? Why do girls say such nonsensical things? Why is it so hard to have a logical conversation with a woman?

Well, if these questions often frustrate you, then you're in luck. See, there's no shortage of women who are pilots, engineers, mathematicians, doctors, and other professions that require some pretty hard core thinking skills.

Are they being purposely dense when we're talking to them on a date? No. What's the deal? Here's the deal.

Attraction is emotional. Nobody can logically decide if they are attracted to somebody or not. You either are attracted, or you aren't. It's like trying to think yourself out of being hungry. Just doesn't work.

Eating and having sex are our two prime directives, as they are with all animals and living creatures. Stay alive, and make more copies of yourself.

So they are programmed into us on a deep, unconscious level. However, guys and girls think about attraction on two totally different levels. A guy is attracted based on looks. Sure, he may have had some bad experiences with psycho women, and learned to screen then based on certain psychological aspects, but that is a conscious decision. He is still physically attracted to ALL hot women, no matter how psycho they are.

It's kind of like enjoying the crap out of cheeseburgers, until your doctor says that if you eat one more you'll die of a massive heart attack. Part of you still craves them, but another part of you is scared of dying, so you consciously avoid them.

With women, though, it's different. They are attracted to personality. Character. And guess what? Us guys don't always have the same personalities and characters. So in those early stages of the relationship, she's always trying to "feel us out." She does this by probing, communicating, and seeing how we respond to different verbal stimulus.

None of this happens on the conscious level. She need to be reassured that we are confident, congruent people who have the skills to be a good provider.

How do you deal with this? Don't pay so much attention to the content. If you're trying to have a logical discussion with her, and she's bouncing around like a beach ball at rock concert, then step back a little bit and pay attention to her emotions.

Also, don't expect her to stick to her word. This sounds harsh, but it's true. It's much better to communicate to her through your actions, rather than getting some kind of verbal agreements.

Many guys make the mistake of telling her when she does something "wrong" and expecting her to "change her ways." This almost never works. She'll never "change her ways" unless your behavior changes according to her behavior.

If she shows up late, for example, and you wait around for an hour, and then listen to her go on and on about a million things unrelated to why she's late, the message your sending is it's OK to be late, no matter how many times she promises she'll never be late again.

What do you do instead? If she's more than twenty or thirty minutes late, leave. The emotions learn from cause and effect, not logical conversation.

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