How to Satisfy Her In Bed - Game of Dominance

By Robb Engel

Women are the dominant sex, where as men have to give it their best shot all the time to grab their attention!

How you can dominate while foreplay and gain the upper hand at the remaining sex. Women love confidence, and men who take control. You may not be that sort of a man. Maybe you are the soft kinds, who likes to give into women's demands. Personally, I am such a man myself, so I don't find it unusual, you are too.

Foreplay is very important in a couple's sex life. A good foreplay, can end into the best sex ever. Sex games can be a very refreshing way of making things new and interesting! This can also be a gateway to be more a dominant male!

Why should you consider roleplay and game of domination?

Very simple answer is, as a man, you will be playing a different role, maybe that of a gangster, or that of a cop, where you have the upper hand, you can be dominating, and your partner, will have to bow low. This dominance can make the difference in bed. Role plays and sex games are many! You can just blindfold your partner, slowly get to the whips and ball-gags.

Personally, when I ask my girlfriend, she and all her friends have the same response. Women love being dominated while sex. It subconsciously attracts them more towards a man. When you're involved with someone where you share the right trust, it can be extremely exciting and satisfying.

Just to caution all the men here. This article is for those who are in an active relationship! These are not tips for a one night stand sort of a relationship. You role play and start off rough on a one night stand, and you'll find, your date is dialing the "911"!

Starting off the things:- take it slow

Don't rush into things. Women don't like sudden changes. So if this is the first time you are putting out your dominant side, you rather be patient, and slow. Start of by gently tying her up, or even as said before, blind folding. Light in some candles. The proceedings have to be dominating but not inhuman. Your partner should feel love and not lust! Hence take it slow, and if you do have fantasies with toys, etc, keep it for when you feel your partner is not going to refuse! A refusal to your dominance can really be hurtful to your sexual confidence.

Switch roles

Dominance in sex is basically termed as sexual fantasies. Now it depends from couple to couple. Some couples prefer one being the dominating and the other the domineer. But I would suggest, be generous! If you started out things, give your spouse to be dominating too. Everyone has fantasies of being both the dominating one and the domineer!

Vocalizing is the icing on top

This is the most exciting part of dominance play role! Vocalizing is very important generally during sex, as how you vocally react, what you say out loud, matters a lot on both sides, to a man and to a woman! So during the dominance game, ask your spouse if they want to be spanked, it certainly turns women on! If she says no though, then you better let it be! For instance you blind fold her, and you are busy pleasing her away, but both of you are mute, then really it makes no sense. You don't know what parts you do pleases her the best, and what she doesn't appreciate at all! So to spice it up, use dirty conversations, use em dirty words, and you will start to enjoy it even more!

Toy fun:

Now this is not applicable to all couples! Some of your spouses may not enjoy toy play at all during sex. If so, don't try it! There are lot of role-playing ideas that you can experiment with! But don't make your spouse uncomfortable! Toys for the game of domination can vary from fun and silly to extreme and hardcore. They all have their own place and time in the bedroom during the game of domination, and you need to know when to introduce them and when not! Make sure, if your spouse is comfortable with toys, you pick them up together from a sex toy store.

Keep it safe, keep the light dominance, and keep it loud, I would suggest! A healthy sex life affects all aspects of life, even parenting in the future! So be healthy, be sexy, and that's all from me!

You can visit me at Romance Rekindlers to see how I got help through my tough times, and how it just turned it all around for me, making me more confident, happy and satisfied, and now reached a point where I advice others on sex.

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