Are You Tired Of Falling Off The Dating Merri-Go-Round In Your Quest For The Elusive Mr Right?

By Moyra D Matson

Just about every person's dream (especially women), if they are being totally honest with themselves, is to met someone wonderful and settle down into a fabulous, committed relationship. Why wouldn't you? We are creatures that crave companionship and love. We need it in our lives almost as much as we need the air we breathe and the water we drink. It's a very primal need that has been with us for generations and shows no signs of disappearing or becoming extinct.

However, life being as it is, sometimes this dream doesn't deliver the goods, in the package we specify, within the time constraints. Frustration and disappointment is felt by men and women alike, all over the world, in all walks of life and age groups. It's not gender specific, it's not age specific and it's certainly not race specific. We all have issues meeting our Mr Right (or Ms Right for the boys) and some of us go to great lengths to rectify the problem.

I was single for many years. In and out of relationships, some good, some bad. Hoping that one day I would find the harmony and love that some of my wonderful friends had already found. My experiences have led me to share a few simple tips with you that will have you off the couch and fending off multiple suitors in no time at all.

1. Exude Confidence - Lift your head high and walk tall. Dress well and take a real pride in how you present yourself in every way. Be a walking advertisement of a together person by exuding a confidence that others will desire. No one wants a slob so make a real effort to show your style in the way you dress, how you keep your home and how you keep your personal possessions like your car.

2. Surround Yourself with like-minded People - The power of positive thinking is hard to ignore. By linking yourself with positive up beat people you automatically get a super charge of enthusiasm. Enthusiasm is beautiful and people are attracted to it like a magnet. Be involved in what is going on around you. By inserting yourself into different groups you also increase your odds of meeting other people. Remember it's a numbers game after all.

3. Be Great Be You - Confused? Don't be. This is my number one tip to everyone. You will not find a compatible mate by trying to be someone you think they want in their life. You must be you. Be authentic and yes be the best person you can but to yourself be true. Don't fall into the trap of trying to be someone else. It will never work in the long-term.

Before you can even expect someone to be attracted to you, you must be happy within yourself. That happiness and contentedness will glow like a beacon and that my friends is one of the most attractive things in person. Stop looking, enjoy life and you will be surprised what will come your way. Enjoy!

Moyra D Matson, Make a Difference Marketing. Tired of being a passenger on the dating merri-go-round? Do you think it's time to get off, take stock of things and make some changes for the best? My ebook Love, Love Me Do explores the sometimes tricky field of relationships and takes the reader on a journey from the first date, the one night stand, the holiday romance and many more challenging situations that are constantly facing single women today. For insight, some simple do's and don'ts and more importantly the realisation that you are not alone this is a must read. Simply click on the link http://www.makeadifferencemarketing.co.nz/re_01sq.html and enjoy your journey to a committed, fantastic relationship.

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How To Tell If She's Into You And Worth Pursuing

By George Hutton

Which would you rather be doing, chasing a woman, or enjoying a woman. While it's true that women love to be chased, there's a thin line, in a woman's mind, between being chased, and being stalked.

If a guy they like is pursuing them, they'll love it. If a guy they loathe is pursuing them, they'll call the cops. The trick is to find out which category you are in, in her mind, so you don't end up wasting time, money or getting a restraining order.

Before we start, you'll need to develop a certain mindset. First of all, there's no such thing as a "soul mate." Many guys and girls fall into this trap because the object of their desire doesn't reciprocate their affection. Guys buy into the idea of a soul mate to justify spending half their lives carrying a torch for somebody who's already forgotten about them.

The truth is that there are plenty of women out there that would satisfy your criteria. All you've got to do is pull away from that emotional gravitational pull and see them. When you're emotionally attached to a woman, it's easy to not see the signs. It's easy to convince yourself that you actually have a chance.

So, how do you know, objectively, if you have a chance or not? If she makes any kind of effort to be with you, that's a good sign. If you're doing all the work, it's time to cut and run. It's that simple.

A girl who's really into you will move heaven and earth to see you, talk to you, and sleep with you. A girl that could take or leave you will only see you, talk to you, or sleep with you when it's convenient to her.

When you have conversations with her, does she ask you questions about you, your life, your interests? Or does she only talk about herself?

Take an objective look at your phone and texts. Does she call and text you as often as you call and text her? Does she only call you when you call her first? Does she only text you when you text her first? A good test, if you're not sure, is go "one way contact" for a couple weeks. Only talk to her, or text her, if she initiates the conversation.

If you stop calling her, and she never initiates a call or text, you've got a clear signal that it's time to move on.

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Should You Pursue Women, Or Should You Pursue Life?

By George Hutton

Deep down, all girls like to be chased. But they also like to chase. They compete with each other to win a man's attention. The reason they wear the clothes they do is to compete with other women. If you're ever with a girl, pay attention to how others treat her when you're out in public, especially girls that aren't with guys.

They'll look her up and down with extreme skepticism and jealously. Girls pick up on this stuff all the time, but guys need to pay close attention in order to spot it. What does this mean? Girls are busy outdoing each other trying to attract guys.

Think about this for a minute. The reason they are hard wired to attract guys, is because for the vast majority of human history, men have not actively pursued them. Men have actively pursued the creation of wealth. Deep down, all women are hard wired to be attracted to men who have the capacity to generate wealth.

Of course, the biggest clue of being able to generate wealth is wealth itself. But that isn't necessary. What is necessary to have a drive, a desire, something that you are actively trying to create with your life. When women ask what you do for a living, they aren't really looking for big money.

What they are looking for, especially if you are young, is somebody who's got big dreams and big ambitions. In economic terms, they are looking for a "ground floor opportunity."

So if you don't have any big plans for your life, you'd better get some. And you'd better take your time making them come true.

The most healthy attitude for a male to take would be actively pursuing the creation of wealth. While it makes for nice romantic movies for a guy to look longingly in a girls eyes and tell her she's the most important thing in his life, that won't get you very far. It might be what they consciously want, but it's not what they unconsciously respond to.

What they unconsciously respond to, and what drives them crazy with desire is a guy who is actively pursuing his dreams. Of course, they're not looking for workaholics. Just guys that are driven. Driven to succeed.

When you pursue wealth, the women will start showing up in your life like magic. And this will get you the best of both worlds. All the wealth you can get, and all the women you can get as well. Isn't it time you got started?

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How Early Should You Express Sexual Desire When Talking To A Girl?

By George Hutton

Girls like guys that are bold. Aggressive. Some even dig jerks. Why? Because they aren't afraid to express what's on their mind. If you cross their boundaries, they'll let you know in uncertain terms. If they like them, they'll say so.

Does this mean you should go full on sex maniac and obviously drool all over them? Of course not, but you should never censor your feelings when speaking to a girl. Why? If you worry about saying or doing the wrong thing, or project the wrong vibe, you'll be sending the wrong message.

What message? That her opinion of you is more important than your opinion of you. This is extremely unattractive. Sure, it might get you some dates, and it might even get you laid, but it will never get you true respect from a woman. Any relationship you build with a woman has got to be built on mutual respect. This doesn't just mean that you respect her and she respect you. It means, most importantly, that you respect you.

Back to sex. Accept any sexual feelings you may have. Don't shove them down thinking they may be to dangerous, or too controversial. So how should you express them? Just below the surface, and with plenty of self confidence.

Let them ooze out through your conversation. Don't worry about getting caught checking her out. If you're out in public, and you're checking out a cute girl, don't look away in shame if you get caught. Maintain eye contact with pride. Smile at her. Nod your head as if to compliment her.

The worst thing you can do is try and "slyly" check her out, and then quickly look away if she catches you.

A lot of guys have this belief that girls hate to be checked out. The truth is that they don't like to be checked out by guys who think they are doing something "wrong." If you've got some self confidence, and view your sexual desires as normal and natural, you shouldn't have any problems.

Of course, this doesn't mean that you are going to get propositioned by girls once you start expressing overt sexual desire to, but you'll actually do a lot better than you may have been doing.

Just walk up to her, and while you're talking to her, imagine doing those things you'd like to do, and fully appreciate and accept them.

Try this and watch your success go through the roof.

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The Ultimate Secrets on How to Make Guys Want You and Drive Them Wild

By Desmond Lee

How can you make guys want you? Can any girl out there actually get guys to do anything that they want to begin with, or is that power only reserved for drop-dead gorgeous girls who already have the power to drive guys wild from the start? If you find yourself wondering about these things on a regular basis, then you probably need to learn how to make guys want you as soon as possible. Keep reading this article and learn the ultimate secrets on how to drive them wild immediately.

Do you ever just watch girls who have the power to make guys go crazy to see how they do it? It always looks like the guys just can't get enough of that girl's smile, eyes or voice, right? Girls like that just seem to have a certain power that lets them win over any guy that they want. Well, you can do the same thing.

Even if you don't look like a model yourself, you can learn how to use your looks to your utmost advantage and make guys want you with ease - believe it. The biggest secret to this would be to be confident. That's right. Confidence is everything in the world of seduction. So, if you tend to slouch a lot because of how unconfident you are, then you are sure to turn guys off. Conversely, if you stand up high, then your confident appearance in itself will draw guys to you like bees to honey.

Let's face it: looks are extremely vital if you want to attract guys to you early on. However, you will need to make plans past your looks, as well, if you want to maintain a guy's interest in the long run. Generally speaking, guys tend to get attracted to girls who are positive, relaxed and fun. So, if you are able to show him how friendly and fun you are just by being yourself, you are sure to win your dream guy over in no time.

What you need to remember at all costs, though, is that you can't make guys want you through sex. While this might work for a while in the beginning, it definitely won't last. In fact, it isn't true that guys will want you more after you give in to the temptation of sex. So, don't rush the physical side of the relationship or you could ruin your chances of developing an emotional side with the guy that you like.

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How to Get Guys to Want You So Bad They Can Taste It

By Desmond Lee

Have you ever been around a man who was so passionate about you because of how badly he wanted you? If you are anything like most girls out there, then you probably want to be in a relationship with someone who is extremely passionate about you. Well, learning how to get guys to want you in that way is fairly easy. You just need to work on building a deeper bond with the guy that you like - that's all.

See, whenever a guy builds a deeper bond with a girl, he will usually do anything for that girl. This is because that girl has made such a great impression on him that she completely stands out in his mind in a good way every single day. Well, believe it or not, you can become this type of girl to a guy and get guys to want you so bad that they will do anything just to spend time with you, too.

Generally speaking, the girls who can get guys to do anything that they want usually learned how to do those things from guys themselves. To start, they got guys to trust them and tell them all of those secrets. This means that you have to learn how to get guys to open up to you, too, so that they end up sharing insider knowledge with you. Unfortunately, if you have no idea how to get guys to open up to you, you could have a harder time building a deeper bond as needed.

The ultimate secret to get guys to want you, though, is not to change your response to guys based on whatever goes on with the two of you. In other words, you can't let guys feel like you are worried about not hearing back from them again. You have to stay exactly the same, as if you are unfazed by everything. Show them that you are cheerful and happy, and will be cheerful and happy, no matter what pans out in the future.

If guys see this behavior in you, they are sure to be floored by your nonchalance. This is because guys are so used to girls being dramatic that flipping things around on them will amaze them to no end. This will, in turn, get guys to want you, make them want to get closer to you and make them want to find out more about you. Try it!

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What Can You Do to Make Your Man Love You As Much As You Love Him?

By Desmond Lee

Do you feel like you love your man so much more than he loves you? Or do you maybe feel like your man is drifting farther and farther away from you that you simply want to learn how make your man love you as much as he used to? Although it isn't possible to force men into doing anything that they don't want to do, you can make yourself much more irresistible in the eyes of men to make them fall more and more in love with you - believe it. Here are several things that you can do to make your man love you while still keeping your sanity at the same time.

Before anything else, you have to understand exactly what men like in order to make your man love you as much as you want him to. Obviously, every man is different and every man has his own tastes. However, there are some things that most men out there find attractive in the opposite sex. Men love confident women, for example, and they love women who have passions and hobbies outside of their relationships, as well.

So, how can you take what you just read into advantage and use them to make your own man love you more? Well, in order to showcase confidence, you will have to show your man that you are actually worth his while and that you have faith in all of your abilities. If you currently feel like you don't have any self-confidence at all, then now would be the time to work on that.

Second of all, if you do not have any other interests or hobbies besides your man, then you might want to take several things into consideration from now on and start finding something else that you love. Once your man sees that you are independent enough to live a happy and fulfilling life without him, he is sure to find you more irresistible, well-rounded and interesting in the long run.

Lastly, you have to show your man how much you really care for him. Give him an easy time talking to you about anything under the sun and avoid berating or belittling him in any way, regardless of what he says. Men usually fall for women who really listen to them and understand them, so treat him like your best friend and you are sure to make your man love you much deeper.

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Flaunt Your Assets and Make Your Dream Guy Want You - Easy Peasy!

By Desmond Lee

Do you already know the easiest ways to make your dream guy want you? Are you ready to flaunt your assets as best you can to get his attention? Do you know the best way to do it, so that he ends up wanting to be in a relationship with you instead of just running after you for sex?

Generally speaking, guys can be quite complicated, so you need to be very careful when dealing with them. So, if you actually want to make your dream guy want you because you are looking for a proper relationship, then you have to flaunt your assets just right to get what you want in the end.

Look Irresistible.

It makes sense that you need to start when your looks if you want to make your dream guy want you. After all, guys are generally very visual. However, you have to be very careful when it comes to this because you don't want to look too sexy. Looking too sexy will merely make guys run after you for sex more than anything else.

Flaunt Your Assets.

It would be vital to show off your best assets when it comes to this, as well, so show guys what it is you can offer and they are sure to come running to your side in no time.

Hide Your Flaws.

On the flip side, it would also be vital for you to try and hide the things that you don't like about yourself. You can use the right kinds of clothes and accessories for this, as well as put makeup to use if you need to.

Stay Classy.

Make it a point to always look classy since guys tend to prefer classy girls over easy girls any day. Keep in mind that you have to portray the right image at all times, so that you can make guys want you the way that you want them to in the end.

Be Confident.

It would also be vital to showcase enough confidence to make guys believe that you are the best catch out there. Make sure that you showcase that confidence the minute you walk into a party or a room. Remember: confidence actually plays a much more vital role compared to your looks since you can win any guy over if you have confidence by your side.

Now that you know how to make your dream guy want you, make sure you always play your cards right!

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How Do Guys Think? What Will Make Guys Want You?

By Desmond Lee

What will make guys want you? Do you dream of finding out how guys really think, so you can answer that particular question and help yourself out? Have you gone through so many instances before where you believed you knew what guys wanted, just to find out too late that you actually didn't? Well, the minute you learn how guys think, you can find out exactly how to make guys want you. Keep reading.

Before anything else, you should know that your overall attitude will play a huge part on how to make guys want you. While this may not be a surprise to you, you do need to remember this at all times. See, if you ever show a guy that you aren't confident or like you feel like you don't deserve him, then he is sure to ignore you altogether.

The truth is: guys are only interested in confident girls who have complete control over their lives. So, if a guy ever feels like you aren't worth a dime, then he won't waste his time on you. However, if you make it seem like you are worth all of the money in the world, then he will be convinced that you are in return.

Another important thing that you need to know about how guys think is that they don't like girls who chase them. You may have problems resisting the temptation to chase the guy of your dreams until he pays attention to you, but guys can smell desperation in a girl and don't find it attractive in any way. So, in a nutshell: don't do it.

Aside from that, guys don't like seeing girls begging for guys' attention or lowering themselves down for guys. They don't like girls who are too serious, either. As such, your best bet here would simply be to wait for guys to chase you and to make things a little hard for them. Believe it or not, guys actually enjoy the challenge of girls who play hard-to-get.

If you think you still need to learn more about how guys think, then try to hang out with guys more from now on. Soon after that, you will realize that they aren't as fond of drama as girls are and are simply more interested in having fun. So, if you would like to make guys want you and keep them by your side, then just have fun and stop being so serious all the time. Smile!

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Make Your Dream Guy Yours Today and Make Sure He Only Has Eyes for You!

By Desmond Lee

Is it possible to make your dream guy yours and make sure he only has eyes for you? With so many gorgeous girls out there, today's competition is quite fierce when it comes to winning a guy's heart over. In fact, there are times where you might feel like the guy you are crazy about constantly has girls swarming over him. So, what can you do to stand out from the competition and make yourself so irresistible that you actually make your dream guy yours in the end?

If you would like to make your dream guy yours and make sure his eyes are on you alone, then you have to be different than the rest. It goes without saying that every person is different from the next, but you shouldn't try and change yourself to meet anybody else's standards. So, if you hate wearing high heels, then just don't wear them. Guys will generally love you if you stay true to yourself and embrace your own individuality, so show guys that you are proud of who you are and they will find you incredibly charming because of it - believe it.

Another thing that you will need to do if you want to win over your dream guy's heart is to make him feel important - like you wouldn't be able to survive without him. See, guys love playing the role of the hero. They love it when girls call them up to do things and then feel like they saved the day at the end of it all.

To make him feel this way, try asking him for help with small jobs that you really aren't able to do yourself. Conversely, you can also ask him for his opinion on certain things that you find important. Then, show him that you are grateful for all of his help and make sure not to take him for granted in any way. If you succeed at making him feel like a hero, he will feel emotionally attached to you, which is what your goal should be right now.

Wouldn't it be great to make your dream guy yours and make him fall so much in love with you that no other girl matters to him anymore? Believe it or not, every girl has the power to get any guy to fall for her. You just need to understand how to trigger the right feelings in your dream guy and you can win him over for life.

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Tap The Incredible Power Of Your Subconscious Mind For Unbelievable Seduction Success

By George Hutton

If you want to get better at anything, you've got to practice. This makes sense. We understand this when doing things like playing sports, and learning instruments, and learning languages. But in other areas of our life, we don't seem to recognize it as much.

For the most part of human history, most guys and girls didn't have much of a choice who they got together with. You hooked up with somebody at church, or a friend of the family, or through your social circle. Unless there were major red flags, you got married, had a family, and that was that.

Nowadays, there's a lot more opportunity. For some this is a good thing. That means they have a much bigger pool of people to choose from. If you're planning on creating a relationship, or starting a family, that means you can potentially find somebody much more appropriate.

However, this is a double edged sword. Back in the old days, since you met people through your social circles and what not, you were "pre-qualified," so to speak. It was a lot easier.

Now you've got to do a lot of that "qualifying" on your own. Not only of yourself, but of the other person. So on the one hand, there' s a lot more potential, but on the other hand, there's a lot more work involved.

And it ain't easy work. Talking to five or ten cute girls every day is a problem for most guys. But unless you are good at talking to a lot of girls, all the potential in the world is useless to you.

So, what do you do? Practice. How do you practice? There's two ways. One is to simply force your way through the awkwardness and talk to girls. The more you talk to, the better you'll get at presenting yourself as well as qualifying them.

However, this can be pretty tough. You'll face a lot of rejection, and this will make it more and more difficult to get out there and practice your skills.

Luckily, there's another way. You can use self hypnosis, and tap the power of your subconscious mind. See, when you talk to girls and get nervous, your mind is automatically creating that nervousness. Your subconscious thinks you are in danger, so it's giving you that anxiety to remind you to be careful.

But when you reprogram your subconscious so that talking to girls gives you good feelings instead of anxious feelings, you'll be able to talk to girls all day long without any problems. Even when you get "rejected" you won't feel bad.

It will feel like trying on a pair of pants that don't fit. You won't feel bad. You'll just put them back on the rack, and go looking for another pair.

How do you do this? Simple. Just spend time every single day imagining yourself talking to cute girls and having incredible success. The more you do this, the more your subconscious will automatically reference those good feelings instead of those old ones.

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How to Make Guys Long for You in a Sexual Manner - Bring in the Passion!

By Desmond Lee

Do you feel desperate and utterly miserable because you have no idea how to make guys long for you and your man simply doesn't seem interested in you in that way anymore? Well, simply leaving things up to chance definitely won't help you out - that's for sure. You always need to bring in the passion as soon as you can if you want to make guys long for you the way that they used to - remember that. Here are some of the best tips to help you out in this department.

Change.

If you have any bad habits that tend to drive guys nuts, then hold back and start denying those annoying habits altogether. In other words, make the necessary changes to make guys long for you and want you all over again. This will definitely make your man go crazy for you again and automatically make him want you in a sexual manner, as well.

Stop Caring.

If you keep moping around and looking like you no longer have a sliver of confidence left in yourself, then your man will merely pity you instead of want you, and that is definitely something you need to avoid. Instead, look as great as possible and shock him with how great you look on a daily basis. The mere sight of you should turn him on in no time.

Become Better.

Having said that, you will also need to take some time off to put in the effort to look as great as possible. If laziness and sloppiness has befallen you lately, then it isn't any wonder why he isn't interested in sleeping with you anymore. Buy some new clothes for a change and groom yourself well. This is sure to thrill your man and keep him happy!

Have Faith.

Regardless of how much effort you have to put in or how long it is seeming to take, you need to keep having faith that you will have the power to make guys long for you again. Once you amp up your confidence levels and start to make the effort to work on your looks more, you are sure to start seeing a whole slew of guys ogling you and wanting to be with you. Once this happens, you shouldn't have any trouble flaunting your assets and working your new clothes to make your man long to jump into bed with you all over again, either.

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Make Guys Want You By Being the Sweetest Girl in the World

By Desmond Lee

There are various ways to make guys want you, and one highly effective way would be by being the sweetest girl in the world. The best part is that being sweet is easy to do. You just need to say sweet things whenever it feels appropriate to. You can whisper sweet things into a guy's ears, for example, and make it feel like an intimate and prove thing between the two of you to really woo him him.

Saying sweet things to make guys want you doesn't have time restrictions, either, so you can just say them whenever you want to in order to boost his morale and improve his mood. Naturally, there are several constraints, though. You might not want to turn on the sweet switch when he is feeling angry and anxious, for instance. You may want to focus on calming him down during those times instead.

On that not, you shouldn't try to look for reasons to be sweet to him, either, except during the first few times of doing it. Once you both get used to the idea of being sweet to each other, though, he will start to anticipate it more and things should go naturally from there.

Now, if you have no idea what to say to make guys want you, then just turn to your heart for help. Try to reach for your emotions and thoughts, and bring them out into words. Since you can say these things anywhere and anytime that you want, though, you can just take your time until you feel passionate and comfortable enough to say sweet things to him.

Don't worry too much if your guy seemed to have expected those things from you. If you are already in a relationship, then things like that might have been expected, after all.

If you find sweet things too embarrassing or mushy to speak aloud, then you have to turn to intimacy for help. Intimacy can help give you all of the courage that you need to say what you want to say and even receive sweet words in return. Remember: not every girl has the courage to be sweet to guys, so feel privileged if you get them out yourself. Ideally, you should take advantage of romantic environments and atmospheres when it comes to this, so that you can really amp up the passion and make guys want you at whim.

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Emotional Bonding: Women Are Meant to Be Unresponsive

By Jane E Thomas

It is often assumed that every woman is able to orgasm just as easily and as frequently as men do. Yet no research supports this view. It is clear from the research that women orgasm much less often than men do.

Kinsey's work was the first exposé of women's covert sexuality (women's masturbatory and lesbian activities). But the conclusion that women in general commonly have their own sexual motivations (outside intercourse) was received with shock and, ultimately, resounding rejection.

Kinsey and Hite collected data anonymously from women of all ages. They highlighted women's experiences of orgasm: rarely or never by any means, only when masturbating alone and with a lover through intercourse. There are no prizes for guessing which one has most appeal!

No one owns up to socially unacceptable experiences in public. So unsurprisingly women's perceived sexuality (or the experiences they will admit to) aligns increasingly with men's experience of sex over time.

Kinsey found two in five women orgasm with a lover 'sometimes'. Later Hite found half orgasm 'regularly' during sex. Today no woman ever admits to having sex for her partner's benefit. The progression is clear but meanwhile heterosexual lovemaking techniques have hardly changed.

Homo sapiens emerged around 200,000 years ago and we have been sexually active ever since. Men's orgasmic abilities do not change over time.

Evolution involves changes that occur over millennia. It is just not possible for the physiological and psychological responses that are involved in women's orgasmic ability to have changed in the space of a few decades.

More liberal attitudes and improved policing create a safer society today, in which women can display more provocative behaviours but still make their own sexual choices. Some men interpret such behaviour as a sexual come-on and in more primitive societies women risk being raped.

Rather than 'repressing their sexuality' society tries to protect young women from predatory men who view sex as a frivolous pleasure rather than a commitment to share in the consequences of heterosexual activity.

Kinsey's work provides the most comprehensive data we have on women's sexuality and a unique opportunity to study women's sexuality at a time when women were under much less pressure to orgasm with a lover.

Excerpt from Jane's new book Women's Sexual Behaviours & Responses (ISBN 978-095689-4717 published 2013)

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How to Improve Your Sexual Stamina and Boost Your Love Life?

By Samuel M Lohan

When it comes to relationships, they say that communication is a big factor. When you and your partner can easily talk about issues like adults, you'll be able to sustain what you have for the long haul. But many people don't talk much about the chemistry the couples share in bed. This is a big factor as well. In fact, sex can make or break a relationship.

When you and your partner first met, you couldn't get enough of each other. In fact, you'd spend waking moment together if this were only possible. Then, the relationship starts to fall into a routine. Sex may still be a big thing for you two, but there also comes a time when you don't have the sexual stamina you once had.

Loss of Libido

Men like to think that their sexual stamina is something to be proud of. You want to please your woman, but sometimes, several things come into play and you start losing the urge to engage in sexual intercourse. This happens for several reasons:

1. Age - The moment you hit 40, your body starts to slow down. In terms of testosterone production, you don't have this so-called sex hormone coursing through your system. As a result, you're unable to sustain longer erections.
2. Stress - Your mind is often on other things. Instead of thinking about the many ways to please your partner, you constantly worry about the pressures you face in your career or in your personal life.
3. Diet - Alcohol and cigarettes speeds up your body's aging process. In fact, alcohol doesn't lower inhibitions; it hinders you from performing well in bed.
4. Health - Certain medicines affect your libido as well. Hence, you need to talk to your doctor about this as soon as you notice some signs.

The sad part is that many of you are too embarrassed to talk about the issue. Instead, you prefer to bear the burden on your own. If you don't do anything about it, your relationship could go downhill quickly.

Ways to Cope

Just know that being unable to perform in bed doesn't make you less of a man. It's all a matter of seeking out the right kind of help. Think about changing some of your habits as well because this could really do wonders with your sexual stamina. Experts suggest that you look into the following solutions:

1. Exercise - Sweating it out allows you to release stress. More importantly, you cleanse your body from harmful toxins when you exercise regularly.
2. Water - Drink more than the recommended 8 glasses a day. Water cleanses your body from chemicals that hinder you from being active.
3. Supplements - Check out your nearest health stores and look into organic supplements that have helped a lot of men regain their desire for sex.
4. Diet - Eat foods that are high in fiber content. Also add more aphrodisiacs into your diet. A few examples are asparagus, avocado, chili, chocolate, oyster, pomegranate, and so many more.

Most important of all is that don't be afraid to seek out expert advice to increase sexual stamina. This is about your wellbeing and you deserve all the help you can get.

I am Samuel Lohan, helping clients with sexual health problems for more than 5 years. Love to write and discuss about mens sexual health issues and concerns. I have written numerous articles and blog posts on male diseases and issues like: penis enlargement, sexual stamina and erectile dysfunction.

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Finding Your Soulmate With The Law of Attraction

By Joshua Howard

Finding your soulmate can seem like an impossible proposition, but it doesn't have to be. With the law of attraction, finding your soulmate is actually a lot easier than you think.

So, if you were to use the law of attraction in your course to finding your soulmate, then how would you do it? It's actually rather simple: clarify, imagine, remove the blocks, and then manifest.

First, you'll need to discover what's really important in a date to you. It's great to just think about what you'd like them to have; however, also remember times you've gone out and had a great or a terrible time--both show you what you like and don't like: use them as a way to mine for information.

Next, you'll need to imagine being with this person. The key here is to imagine your relationship as if it were happening. What you're doing is training your unconscious mind to not only recognize what you really want and to experience it, but it also trains your unconscious that you can have these things.

And as you imagine yourself with your soulmate, inevitably, "blocks" will arise for you. These are the beliefs and feelings that tell you can't have your soulmate. They often start with something alone the lines of "I'm not the kind of person that... ", "Others just don't like people like me... ", "It's not possible... ", "That's fairy tale thinking... " etc. But in short, anything that blocks you from being able to imagine or manifest your soulmate is a block. You need to overcome these so that you and your goal can work congruently, by which I mean that each of these blocks is an unconscious resistance to yourself. In other words, these beliefs and feelings are holding you back from achieving what you really want in your life.

Once these blocks are overcome, then it'll be rather easy to manifest your soulmate. And honestly, at this point whether or not the universe is aligning or there's any truth to the theory of vibrations, just by changing the beliefs and feelings that have held you back from finding someone you're truly compatible with, you'll have an entirely different dating experience. So, after you've figured out what you want, imagined it fully, and dropkicked the blocks (by the way, this whole process could take minutes, hours, days, weeks, or months--it took me about eight months to actually get through it, even though I thought I was done well before that... ).

By the way, do you want to learn more about using the law of attraction to attract your soul mate? If so, join my special law of attraction newsletter here: Attracting Your Soul Mate

Joshua Howard is life coach who specializes in law of attraction, NLP, and DHE.

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Dating In The 21st Century: Why We Have Come Full Circle

By Laura Varadi

We all lead busy and hectic lives. Maintaining a healthy work-life balance has become progressively more difficult. The stresses of daily life have become numerous and increasingly burdensome. If you ask the average person to list their top five stressors you will likely receive answers such as "work colleagues", "car payments", "traffic jams" etc. What I have found increasingly more prevalent is the inclusion of "dating" in many people's lists.

Many singles can attest to the fact that dating has become progressively more difficult. Over the past ten years the dating scene has shifted from a more direct and personal style of encounter to an environment filled with anonymity and frustration. In the not so distant past many people could rely on daily living to present them with a reasonable selection of possible mates. A healthy work environment combined with an active social life were all that one needed to provide them with an ample selection of potential lifelong companions.

In today's society the prospect of finding someone by way of the above-mentioned routes is a near impossibility. Although the reasons for this are numerous, the most important appears to be a change in how we network socially.

The new definition of social networking:

Although it is true that the internet has simplified life in many ways, it has greatly changed the way people meet and communicate. Much socializing is now done online, in the comfort and security of one's own home or office or on a cellular phone. Internet dating has become extremely prevalent in the last decade and has brought with it some major implications.

The anonymity associated with the internet can lead one to provide an embellished, misleading or outright false impression of themselves to potential mates. This can be costly in many ways. It can direct one to inaccurately believe that a person possesses certain qualities that they are seeking and hence lead them to believe that they have found a match. Furthermore, the time taken to communicate through the internet prior to having a face-to-face meeting may be prolonged and could be better utilized in a more productive fashion. In addition, it is difficult to avoid the inherent danger associated with one misrepresenting themselves to others. Unfortunately, dating sites have yet to devise a way to patrol their online communities.

Another important implication is the changing work environment. There appears to be a rise in the level of discontent amongst workers in a vast majority of sectors. The causes of this are numerous and may include increased workload, hostile work colleagues and lack of job security. This dissatisfaction can lead to frustration and apathy, which in turn can cause one to potentially overlook a beneficial social contact. The same can be applied to the college and university environment wherein the stresses of increased competition and workload can lead one to miss a likely connection.

The solution: Out with the new and in with the old

Now that we have identified some of the problems let us turn to a discussion of potential solutions. Even with the prevalence of online dating there are still opportunities to meet others face-to-face. Joining a group with those who have similar hobbies or interests can be of benefit when trying to meet like-minded individuals. A change in perception towards your work or school environment can help to make useful connections. Although in-person networking has become increasingly more difficult, you should always try to use your current associations, including family, friends, and colleagues, to expand your social circle.

Furthermore, there are dating options available that do not involve the internet. Personalized matchmaking has been around for hundreds of years and provides people with a stress-free and simplified alternative to the current dating scene. Matchmakers personally meet with each individual and are therefore able to more effectively screen for potential mates. In addition, as matchmaking is usually more expensive than an average internet dating site, clients are generally more serious about finding a lifelong companion.

Although we cannot remove many of life's stressors, having someone personally get to know you and your needs and seek a mate for you can potentially remove "dating" from your top five list.

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Hire a Fake Girlfriend or Boyfriend

By Louie Veleski

The reason why you're currently not romantically involved with someone is anyone's guess. Maybe you prefer to be on your own and enjoy the freedom that your single lifestyle provides. Maybe you're concentrating on a career and don't exactly have all that much time to invest in a relationship. But what happens when the situation calls for having an actual partner? What happens when you're invited to an event that requires you to bring someone along? Many people feel rather uncomfortable being all alone in a social situation. You have no one to talk to and when someone does make conversation with you, it usually feels like it might just be out of pity.

Hiring a Fake Girlfriend or a Fake Boyfriend in this instance would prove to be very convenient and a practical solution. Everyone at the event will assume that you have both met under normal circumstances and it is very easy to come up with an imaginative story about how you both met. It also gives you a fantastic opportunity to broaden your social circle and make new friends in the process. Arriving on your own at a social function is never a pleasant experience therefore having someone by your side always makes for a far more confident entrance.

The benefits of hiring a date when one doesn't actually have a real partner are way too many to mention in this one article. Let's say you have recently broken up with someone that you were in a long term relationship with. Because of this, it is highly likely that you would both have a large amount of mutual friends. Now just because you are both no longer together, doesn't mean that you would also split up with the many friends you have gained over the years. But here's a situation, where hiring a date could really tip the scales in your favour.

Say your former partner has decided to move on and become romantically linked with a brand new person. You seem to be somewhat excepting of this as long as it isn't being shoved in your face. But then one of your mutual friends decides to invite you to her 40th birthday party which your former partner will also be attending. The only problem for you is that he won't exactly be arriving on his own. He will be showing off his new flame while you pretend to be OK with the situation all the while grinding your teeth praying that Scotty will eventually beam you up. Although I am painting a fictitious picture here, this type of situation happens more often than you would think.

Now just imagine if you had the ability to choose a date on demand and hire them for exactly this type of scenario. I'm pretty sure that this would make for a very different outcome. You will no longer appear like someone that is incapable of getting a date and moving on with their life. Your former partner will realise that not only are you able to find someone else but also find someone even better looking and far more intelligent than they are. At the end of the night you leave the party feeling confident and good about yourself. No one ever needs to know that the person accompanying you was actually a hired date. Only you and that person will ever know the truth and they are required by their professional code of conduct to never reveal any details. In conclusion, Hiring a Fake Girlfriend or Boyfriend can really be a game changer when needed in certain situations.

There aren't too many online platforms that offer this type of service and it is imperative that you choose a website that specializes in this style of dating. 'Dates for Hire' is very unique in the sense that it is one of the very few online dating sites which makes it compulsory for every member to have a video introduction. For more information please visit http://www.dates4hire.com today and hire yourself the perfect date.

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Boundaries Protect Relationships

By Susan Derry

Setting boundaries is an important relationship skill. Many people find it difficult to ask for what they want. They go through life giving to and pleasing their partner, hoping that some day their partner will return the favor. Resentment and frustration can build until the pendulum swings too far and those who for years have been bending over backwards to please others, suddenly become obnoxiously insistent that things go their way for a change. Finding the balance between being too passive and too aggressive can be a challenge. The following 4 tips can help you achieve an assertive balance when setting your boundaries.

1. Know Yourself
In order to be assertive, you first need to know your values, preferences, and limits. It is important to recognize the difference between your principles and values, and your preferences. Once you are clear on who you are and what is really important to you, it becomes easier to share this with your partner.

2. Set Boundaries
Share your expectation with your partner. When setting boundaries, be honest, direct and specific. Try to create boundaries based on your values and principles, rather than preferences. Cleanliness is a value; the color of the towels in the bathroom is a preference. Try to remain open and flexible about preference; and firm and consistent about values. The more we stay true to our values the better we feel in our life. Persistence is key when setting boundaries. It becomes easier with practice and it is freeing to be open about your needs and desires.

3. Open Your Mouth
Your partner cannot read your mind. If you want your needs to be met, the best way to help that happen is to open your mouth. You can start small by expressing your preferences for shows to watch, places to eat, and things to do for fun. It can be easier to start by talking about how you felt about things that happened in the past and what you would have preferred and work up to expressing how you feel about what is happening as it is happening.

4. Be The Example Of What You Want
Respecting your partner's boundaries sets an excellent example for your partner. If he wants you to call if you are going to be home late, then call. If she wants you to keep the clutter off the bedroom dresser, then do so. The small choices we make every day, speak volumes to our partner. You can also check in with your partner to see if what you are expecting and asking seems like a reasonable request to them. Your partner may be more willing to respect your boundaries if they feel respected in return.

If you have clearly set your boundaries, you are being respectful and consistent in setting or maintaining your boundaries and your partner still refuses to respect you and your boundaries, it may be time to consider seeking professional help.

Susan Derry, B.Ed., M.S.Psy., R.P.C.
Professional Counselor & Life Coach
Co-author of Marriage Prep: Beginnings a downloadable marriage preparation course
Offers a free Nurturing Marriage Ezine
Co-author of Intimate Sex: Manual for Lovemaking, a sex manual for couples 

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