Time to learn something for once! If you ask your guy friends for a few pointers about sex, you probably won't make it very far. Unless they are pure gigolos, chances are your guy friends are also a little weary when it comes to improving sex and relationships. Here are ten truly valuable tips that will change your sex life for the better!
Put Her First
You're with her for a reason; make sure she knows this. Don't let her become a ball-and-chain, but you should stay home if she really wants you to. After all, she probably is an excellent lover or else you probably wouldn't be with her... or would you?
Dim Those Lights
Many women are self-conscious about their bodies. For a perfectly healthy solution to this problem, keep your lights down low. It will enable her to perform at her best by taking away some of the light. Who has sex with the lights fully on, anyways?
Don't Over-Kiss
There is definitely such thing as an "over-kiss". Kissing should be sensually, massaging, and stimulating. It should not be wet, sloppy, fast or lustful. Always begin kissing slowly, and then work into more intense oral fixations. Your lips should massage and lightly press against hers; you shouldn't be swallowing her mouth. A bad kisser is a real turn-off even if you are loved.
Praise the Girl
Next time you and your girl are out with your friends or family, make an effort to compliment her in front of them. This shows that you don't act differently with her when you are around others who can be critical of you, and it also shows that you care about her enough to show her off and praise her among others.
The Cuban Plunge
The Cuban Plunge is a take off of the traditional "missionary" position, where the man is on top. While "on top", tell her to bring her knees to her chest and fling her legs over your shoulders. A very common position, it allows her vagina to become stretched out and elongated, making for a deeper and more stimulating penetration.
I Want to Hold Your Hand
Holding hands is an age old act of affection that extends well into the later years. From toddlers to elderly couples, people hold hands as both a message to one another and a message to the rest of the world, saying "this is my one and only love, and I couldn't be happier." Keeping that love and relationship thriving will also keep your sex fresh and stimulating.
Smell Nice For Her
If there was a time when she told you that you smelled good, you'd best remember what it was that caused the smell. Was it cologne, an aftershave, or a deodorant? Whatever she likes, you shall give her. Our sense of smell is the most powerful as far as memory goes, and finding that ultra scent will take her back to that time before. Once you find something that works, wear it regularly until she gets sick of it.
Subtle Flattery
No woman wants to be showered with stupid compliments all day, but if you can find a way to do it in a subtle way, do it. When you wake up in the morning, tell her she looks peaceful. When she heads off for work, tell her that her hair looks wonderful. Call her at lunchtime and tell her that the sandwich she made for you was very good. Can you see how these compliments are unobtrusive and thoughtful? Don't go overboard; just be kind and considerate.
Talkin' Dirty
Many couples find it hard to talk dirty to one another, while it comes fairly naturally to others. For those that find it difficult, it's important to ease into it rather than attempting to do it without experience (unsophisticated dirty-talk can ruin sex). If you're both interested in talking dirty, try letting her know that she "gives you dirty thoughts" or "makes you feel naughty". Ease into it, and it should turn into a full-blown conversation in no time.
Foreplay the Right Way
Foreplay involves stimulating anything but the genitals. Therefore, the clitoris does not constitute as a target for foreplay. Foreplay is used mainly to stimulate the genitals themselves without direct contact. Diving right into stimulating the clitoris does not make for a pleasant experience for the woman. Building some anticipation with foreplay can be a great way to gain a strong arousal for sex.
Build upon these few suggestions, and you'll definitely expand your sexual horizons. Understanding the importance of sex and the intricate points that make up it's essence will guarantee you a place among the sexual gods.
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