The Step By Step Seduction Instructions Guide

By J Ryu

Mystery's M3 pickup model has everything you have to know about the basics of seducing women. Seduction can essentially be broken down like a scientific experiment. The M3 pick up model, like the scientific method, is a strategy to fix a problem, and what bigger problem is there than how you can seduce women? Many men, however, may look at that and be like in college chemistry: blank stares mixed with a bit of fear and disgust. For those of you discouraged by the technical aspect of the M3 model, the following is the simplified version, the step by step seduction guide.

The simplified variation of attracting girls is generally broken down into 3 steps:

1. Approaching
2. Attracting
3. Connecting

Simplifying everything to three steps makes it much easier to learn, memorize, and recognize what phase you are in so you can escalate accordingly. Generally, it works like this: first you approach the target and get in with an opener so the woman ends up being receptive to what you have to say. Then you have to get the girl attracted to you, or at the very least, interested. After the girl is interested, you have to hook her and reel her in by establishing connection.

The Approach

Approaching a random girl is possibly one of the most intimidating things you can do. There is no magic charm to get over this fear. Like any fear, you have to face it then conquer it. The best method to conquer fear of approaching women and the consequent approach anxiety is to do it over and over till you get desensitized to it. Let's get this straight: you WILL crash and burn and get rejected a lot of times when you first start out. If this prevents you from approaching women, you should quit now and become a monk. However, as you gain painful experience, rejection will get easier to handle, if not less painful, until the day comes when you barely get shot down at all. Rules to follow when approaching girls are:

1. Follow the 3 second rule. Approach her within three seconds of spotting her.
2. Never, ever open with an apology or filler like, "Excuse me," "I'm sorry but," "I couldn't help noticing," "I need to tell you," "If you're not too busy." These make you appear like a beggar.
3. Never give her a compliment on her looks, especially if she's pretty. You'll just be one of the many boring chumps that week that told her how cute she is and give her more power.
4. Do not buy her a drink or whatever else to get her attention. You can't buy her interest. Buying her things serves to show her that you're so pitiful, you have to try and buy her attention.
5. Don't come off as too eager, desperate, or scared. Girls are experts in body language and what is more pitiful than a desperate guy eager to do anything for her attention?

The Attract

Once you have successfully approached a woman and she is actually ready and willing to listen to what you have to say, you only have an instant to sell yourself. Consider this stage as the "elevator pitch." You're in an elevator with Bill Gates and you have until the duration of the elevator ride to pitch him your amazing business concept and get him interested in you. The attraction phase of picking up girls is exactly like that. You have a couple of minutes to sell yourself and gain her interest before she dismisses you as not being interesting.

Women are attracted to your perceived value, and to get her interest, your perceived value needs to equal or surpass her own value. There are 2 methods to do this. You can either raise your value, lower her value, or you can do both. Raising your value is done through a pick-up artist technique called DHV (demonstrate high value) and decreasing her value is done with the pickup technique called negging.

1) Demonstrating high value (DHV)

Demonstrating high value means that you are doing something or showing her that you deserve her attraction and interest and can provide her with something of value. She has to feel that you add value to her so is worth her time. This is done with pick-up artist tricks, gimmicks, routines, or just exuding a sense of value like the powerful, rich guys naturally do.

2) Negging

Negging is a kind of fun antithesis to complimenting. The goal is to tease her playfully so that her value decreases a little bit. A neg should never come off as an insult but more of a tease to provoke a response from the girl. Attractive women particularly have such high value that unless you can pull off an equally high value to meet hers, it is best to lower her value a little by negging her. Some effective negs are:

• "You like shopping for outfits at Walmart, don't you?"
• "Isn't that purse last year's model?"
• "Nice hairstyle, very 80's."
• "You shouldn't be drinking any more alcohol, you're already not making sense."
• "I know a really affordable health club you may like."
• "You're like a little sister, cute but pesky."

The Connect

Making a connection is the longest and most satisfying stage in a successful pick up. When you've created mutual attraction and the tough part's over, it's simply a matter of getting to know each other. You just converse, enjoy each others' company, and make emotional and physical connections. This is the stage where you also escalate your kino (physical contact). Making a connection is mostly done through having a deep conversation and creating similar threads. You can talk about your vulnerabilities and childhood experiences here also to really establish a deep connection.

You can check out and try out the tricks and routines to create emotional connections with a woman, but nothing works better than having an authentic conversation and getting to know each other through things you share.

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