How to Seduce a Woman - It's Not Just About Sexual Attraction

By Chris G. Tyler

It's a common mistake for a guy to assume that to be successful with seduction, that you have to be totally focused on sexual attraction. Yes, it is a big part of it and I guess you could argue that everything that makes a woman feel like being seduced by you falls under the banner of sexual attraction, but it really isn't just about the sex. Guys who think that way, usually don't have a lot of sex. They might get a lot of phone numbers, but that is about it.

So, what else is it that you have to do if you want to know how to seduce a woman?

1. You have to make her feel like her reputation is going to be preserved.

I have a friend who started doing really well with getting women into bed, only he told just about everyone about everything that he did, and pretty soon he wasn't getting women into bed. The reason? Women started to figure out that he was the kiss and tell kind of guy and that they could risk their reputation by being with him. Most women will preserve their social reputation at just about any cost when it comes to sex, so they'll choose not to do anything if they feel like they are with a guy who is just going to kiss and tell and give details.

2. You have to make her feel emotionally connected to you because sex is emotional to her.

There are women who'll say that they can have sex without having those lingering attachments, but most of the time, they are just saying that. I've met many women who made that claim, but when they slept with a guy, it was another story. They were attached. Sex is an emotional act for a woman, she needs to feel like she is connected to you on an emotional level. If not, and she does sleep with you, you'll end up being a situation that she regrets, not one that she actually looks back on with fondness.

3. You have to make her feel like the environment around her is safe.

A lot of guys will miss the mark on this one. They'll want to hook up in a setting that doesn't feel safe to a woman and if you do that, you'll fail most of the time. This is why having the logistics down pat before you try to escalate things is key. You want to be able to make a transition to an environment that is safe to her. You'll get a lot fewer situations where it seems like something is going to happen and then nothing happens that way.

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