How Do I Keep the Conversation Going With a Woman?

By Marshall H Law

Speaking to a woman is EASY.

The problem with us men is that we always over think what we're going to say to a woman when we initiate conversation with her. The fact is that it's a lot easier to talk to a woman than many men believe. In fact you don't have to do the talking.

People in general love talking about themselves all you really need to do is provide and outline for a woman and she will take over the conversation, this leaves you with only having to use witty one liners to keep the conversation going.

EXAMPLE:

Woman: I go to law school... blah blah blah...
You: Oh so you want to be a professional liar? (in a funny sarcastic way)

Woman: Oh my god shut up! Anyway... I don't know if i want to be a lawyer or start over as a nurse that wipes old people's butt cracks. You see my dad pressured me into being a lawyer but my life passion was always to clean up old men's feces...

Do you get the point? See how you only say one line as she rambles about her life story? Plus the less she knows about you the more mysterious you are. The more mysterious you are to her the more she thinks about you. By the way if you ever meet a woman who is passionate about wiping wrinkly butts of old men I would run as fast as I can.

The fear that we have when we approach women is absolutely ridiculous if you think about it. We initiate in conversation subconsciously every single day... the only way you have trouble knowing what to say to women is that you're over thinking it. You need to stop over thinking the situation and just go for it.

Plus by experience I've learned that you can never get rid of the fear. It happens with approaching women, it happens before getting on stage to perform music or comedy, it happens before a speech and it happens before any big moment. The good thing is that fear will instantly go away when you finally do the damn thing...

If you've ever been on stage do you notice stage fright goes away once you start and it's like you go into auto pilot? This is the same thing with talking to women! Once you initiate the conversation your speech will go into auto pilot. You don't need to worry about the exact science of a conversation, you don't need to perfect it... in fact if you're trying to perfect your conversation you're increasing your chances of messing it up. Embrace your imperfections...

Whether you like him or not... Barack Obama is considered a great speaker, and even he has awkward pauses and imperfections in his speeches. Does he worry about that? No... he accepts it and moves on.

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