Learn How To Find A Boyfriend With These Great Tips

By Alison Peterson

Women have always been told that if they were more physically attractive, they'd get a boyfriend. If they had bigger breasts, a smaller waist, a button nose, they'd be more marketable for the dating scene. Magazines give all sorts of steamy bedroom tricks to "win any man over." But no woman wants to merely be kept in bed. They want a respectful, compassionate boyfriend.

True, one should always be kept well groomed, but not overdone. Going overboard with makeup and clothing can make it seem like you're hiding something. Keep everything natural. Brush your hair, brush your teeth, take a shower and wear clean clothes. There is no reason to go red carpet with the makeup and dress. Find what works for your own body, and work with it. (Keep in mind that sometimes less is more!) A ten second glance is all it takes to deduce an avalanche of perception. You want to make sure you don't portray yourself the wrong way.

First dates/ first impressions can make or break the future path of a relationship. There are simple steps you can take to ensure you leave a good impression on him. First dates are a great time to learn a lot about someone, usually by question and answer. They are tennis matches of questions and anecdotes. These conversations base the overall outcome of the date, thus the potential for a relationship. Be careful not to ask him questions that may make him feel like you're "sizing him up." Avoid close-ended questions that can be answered in one or two quick word (e.g. "Do you like your work?"). Don't ask too many quantitative questions like "How long have you been an electrician?" Instead ask questions that will divulge his true personality, and require more thought to a lengthier answer. Ask things like "What is your favorite part about what you do?"

Men are egotistical beings, and they respond well to anything that boosts their ego, so asking him deeper questions about himself will really go a long way. Men will also show off, which means they're probably taking you a restaurant a little more expensive than what he usually goes for, so don't be excessive. Choose an entrée somewhere in the middle of the price range. Casually mention a simpler alternative for next time, with a phrase like, "Oh, I know a great, cheap Chinese place downtown, we should totally try it out sometime."

Keep the conversations interesting. Everyone expects the usual, superficial, introduction questions: Where are you from? What do you do for a living? Keep his interest piqued by throwing out some unexpected questions. Ask things like "What did you want to be when you grew up?" or "If you had a super power, which would it be?" Don't be afraid to get a bit silly. Sometimes the greatest, most in depth conversations develop over hypothetical scenarios.

Don't expect too much. Romance movies always show two people falling in love over long, creative dates. Most men aren't that creative. Dinner and a movie have always been their default date, and most of them will stick to it, especially for a first date. Just enjoy his company. Understand that he'll probably have some faults, so don't set your sights on a perceived notion of perfection. Even if he seems perfect, don't smother him. At the end of the date, say "Thanks, I had a good time." Maybe even suggest you plan the next date. It takes the pressure off him to have to call you first, and it will also allow you to gauge his desire to go out again. Match his contact with you. If he sends one text, don't send fifteen. If you send a text and he doesn't respond, don't continue bombarding him, or it will push him away as he will think of you being clingy.

Through it all, you must be confident. Show him that no matter where you're relationship goes, you'll be just as happy as ever, and you'll go on with your life. He'll feel the same, and won't feel so pressured trying to impress you.

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