The Art Of Seduction In The Modern World

By Carter James

Many people have a misunderstanding about the Art of Seduction - they think that it is some hurried method of attracting a potential long term or short term mate.

That's not seduction at all; that is the goal of seduction; not the art of it.

Seduction begins when we engage someone we are interested in on an emotional level and slowly (sometimes quickly) develop a physical, emotional and psychological connection; and then inject sexual tension and interest; thus moving toward the goal of seduction.

So how do we do that?

It starts with a conversation that can be somewhat emotionally driven; initially by one person relating an emotional event or story from their life; thus awakening the "emotional brain" of the other person.

Not to oversimplify the workings of the human mind; but in circumstances like this; our brains really have two hemispheres; the "logical side" and the "emotional side"

In reality, both sides are sharing the same resource and both sides don't operate at the same level at the same time. When someone is being analytical, the emotional side of the brain is somewhat repressed; and when someone is feeling emotional; the logical side of the brain is repressed.

This is one of the keys to seduction - engage the emotional brain so that the logical; analytical side of the brain is working at a lower level - then start adding sexual awareness to the perceptions of the emotional brain.

Even if a conversation is going extremely well it is important not to move too fast. Until a person reaches a certain level of emotional comfort; moving too quickly can invoke what I call a "Red Zone Realization"; this is when they recognize that their feelings are forming too quickly and fear that they might be about to make a bad decision. This forces the logical brain into overdrive; and if that happens you might as well move on because that person is done with you and is getting out of that situation immediately.

Assuming that you have avoided the Red Zone Realization and feel that the time is right to turn things in a more physical direction; you need to start creating sexual awareness or sexual tension in that person.

The technique that I use is one that might work for you too.

While carrying on that conversation; I start to think about things that arouse me; don't talk about them; just carry on the conversation while thinking about them; and maybe imagining something physical between you and that person.

Might you be wondering what good that will do in creating sexual awareness if you are only going to imagine these things and not bring them into the conversation?

The good it will do is that it will cause you to start sending silent signals through your body language that that person will certainly perceive on a conscious or subconscious level; and by understanding how to read the body language of that other person; you will know what they are feeling and how they are responding to you.

Seduction occurs on a deeply psychological level; it is a fascinating science; one that can really be learned by anyone.

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