How to Train a Man Into Doing More of the Things Which Please You - This Works Well

By Nikita Dev

The title caught your attention, didn't it? I mean, who wouldn't want to have a man who showers you with love, care and attention. Caters to your every little and big need, and cares for you so deeply that it's almost too good to be true.

But you see this isn't something which happens only in the movies or your special dreams. This can be a reality, provided you understand how to train a man properly, here are some tips which will help you...
Reward him for good behavior and punish him for bad behavior...

Do not take the above statement literally. It doesn't mean that when your man does something you don't like, you'll beat him with a stick and lock him into a room, although, that is something many women would love to do.

What I mean is this - when you emotionally reward a man, whenever he does something good for you, he is more likely to do more of those things. Humans are driven by two basic emotions, they are - Pleasure and pain.

We do everything in our power to gain as much pleasure as possible, and avoid as much pain as possible in our life. Feelings fuel our actions and when something makes us feel good, we are inclined to do more of that action.

Let me give you a small example of this - Whenever your man calls you, just say this to him...

"Honey, I love it when you call, I get these lovely feelings around you that are just hard to describe, and you are a very special man. I appreciate that you call me."

You will witness that he will magically start to call you more and more. In fact, you won't even have to ask him to call you; he would just do it by default.

Now why is this?

This is because by showing appreciation and giving him subtle compliments whenever he calls you, you're indirectly training his unconscious mind to anchor good feelings to the act of calling you.

Therefore whenever he would think about dialing your number, he would by default feel these awesome feelings which will make him call you on a regular basis.

Similarly, if you nag him for not calling you or when he does call, you question him about why he didn't call you yesterday or day before, he will unconsciously anchor bad feelings to the act of calling you.

He will think - Whenever I call her, she nags me and complains about things. Due to this, whenever he will think about the act of calling you, he will by default feel these nasty feelings in the pit of his stomach and will sort of avoid calling you.

Can you see how important it is to understand this and train your man properly in regards to certain things? In fact, if your man currently does things you absolutely hate, yet you can't stop him, it's because he has anchored negative feelings to those actions which are forcing him to do or not do certain things around you.

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