How to Flirt With Women - Why Most Men Suck At It And Don't Even Know It

By Chris G. Tyler

You can learn an awful lot by hanging out with single women at bars and clubs, just on the friend level. You get to see how guys approach them and try to flirt with them and you get to hear what the women say afterwards. That kind of helps you to be able to pick out the kinds of mistakes that most men end up making when they try to flirt and you realize that most men kind of suck at it, even though they think that they are good or at least okay.

Here is why most men suck at trying to flirt with a woman:

1. They try to be too clever.

You can always tell when a guy is putting in too much effort into trying to be clever with a woman. He's trying to hard to think of the right thing to say at the right time and it ends up being obvious. It also gives off this weird kind of vibe and if you do that - you are pretty much done for. If it takes too much effort to try to come up with something to say, then it probably isn't going to land well and you probably should take the time to get better at talking to women.

2. Their body language screams out NO CONFIDENCE.

Come up to a woman with body language that says that you are nervous and scared and she'll pick up on it and it usually will give her a weird feeling. You have to have body language that says that you ARE confident and that you are laid back. Otherwise, you are going to end up making a bad impression and there probably isn't going to be much of any chemistry when you are trying to flirt with a female.

3. They try to turn things sexual too quickly.

Can you say, creepy? That's what she is going to think if you come across like you are just trying to talk sexually to her right away. There is a right way and a wrong way to talk sexually to a woman and the results from doing it right are awesome while the results from doing it wrong are dreadful and embarrassing. If anything, you want to err on the side of caution. At the same time, though, you do need to be able to talk sexually to a woman the right way if you want things to advance in that direction.

Are you ready to find out how to flirt sexually with a woman the RIGHT way?

Go to: How to Seduce a Woman to find out MORE.

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