Seduction Secrets: How To Overcome Her Tests And Become Irresistibly Attractive

By George Hutton

Most guys have heard about "tests." In fact, the most common adjective describing these tests can be used on these here site. In more technical terms, they can be described as "frame tests." In this short article you'll learn what they are, why they exist, and how to easily overcome them.

First, what are they? You'll be getting along fine with somebody, and then suddenly she'll say something that seems to "rattle your cage," so to speak. Like you'll be talking to her, and she'll notice some guy and say something that makes it sound like she's attracted to him.

Right there in front of you! How dare she!

Now, why do these exist? Well, there's a lot more to it than this, but guys and girls have different criteria when it comes to selecting an appropriate mate. Guys look for looks, while girls look for character. In evolutionary terms both are measures of how well the kids will fare. Healthy looking (attractive) girls tend to have healthy kids.

Guys with strong character (attractive) tend to be able to provide for those kids. Guys try to get the best they can get, girls try and get the best they can get.

Now, when a guy scans a room, all he's got to do is look and see if she's healthy (attractive) or not. He doesn't really need to talk to her, except maybe to verify she speaks the same language. Even then it's not a deal breaker.

Women, on the other hand, can't tell the strength of a guys character simply by looking at him. They've got to "test" him to see how strong he is. Kind of like if you were hiking and you saw this sketchy looking over a deep and rocky ravine. You wouldn't just merrily walk across it with your might.

You'd "test" it first, but putting on a little bit of weight, see how it responds, and then a little bit more. If it creaked and groaned, you'd look for another bridge.

Your girl is doing the same thing. She is testing you to see how strong you are. Some guy that gets into a tizzy every time she looks at another guy, or calls him a name, or ignores him when he calls or texts, isn't going to be a very good provider. At least not according to the rules of evolution.

How do you overcome these? Easy. Ignore them. They don't bother you at all. She's just doing it to feel more secure. Let her. Give her what she wants. Do the same thing you'd do if your five year old niece called you a "poopy head." Just look at her and say, "ahh, isn't that cute!"

When you can do this, you'll be more attractive, charismatic, and seductive than you can possibly imagine.

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