Male Chastity Marriage - Mistakes and Myths

By Sarah Jameson

I'm here to help you get your wife or lover to give you what you want -- serious male chastity.

And I actually take it very seriously, because I know, and you'll come to discover for yourself, just how fabulous male chastity is. But getting to that point means letting go of probably everything you've ever heard, thought, or believed about it.

That focus on realism and critical thinking is at the core of what I do in my articles and blog, and in my own life with John.

So a Big Mistake is simply this: male chastity is a sure-fire way to fix any relationship, a foolproof strategy to turn your loved one back into the passionate, lustful utterly devoted creature he or she once was. It's a common myth you'll see perpetuated in the forums and blogs, as well as by people intent on selling you an expensive chastity device.

And it is a myth.

Because male chastity is not a panacea and can actually do more harm than good.

Let's back up a bit. In most cases it's the man who's driving the male chastity lifestyle -- he stumbles across it somehow, usually because he's always been turned on by the thought of having his climaxes controlled or even denied, and thinks it'd be a fun thing to try.

So, he then summons up the courage to speak to his wife or girlfriend and she goes off looking for information; or you, perhaps, point her in the right direction. In my experience it's almost never the other way around.

Despite what the forum posts and blogs say, women almost never turn to their men and tell them "I want to lock you away because of X, Y and Z".

It does happen, I'm sure, but not often (so if it's happened to you, then I hope you realise how lucky you are).

And the reason the man does this?

Well, yes it's true he has this fantasy... but it goes deeper than that, and the more he learns and thinks about male chastity, the more true this becomes. Because he also loves his partner... and, like him, you want to recapture the passion and lust of how it used to be when you were first together.

Actually, it's a lot more than this. The desire for male chastity burns hot and bright as you'll see when I share some personal stories with you about me and John, but more on that in future articles.

Anyway, in loving-but-stale relationships I'd say yes, male chastity is definitely worth giving a try, because -- and here's the important bit -- your underlying relationship is strong and solid. This is assuming you or your partner have no strong moral, ethical, religious or other personal reasons for not even considering it (sadly, that happens, too).

You see, male chastity doesn't replace parts of your relationship: it enhances the whole and help you make it grow. And it's true, one of the benefits is it increases and enhances your love-life.

No doubt about it.

But what it won't do is resurrect something that's already dead.

Male chastity is so powerful because, in the main, it's about increasing and enhancing the physical and emotional intimacy you experience with one another.

This is why men become more loving and attentive -- not because they all want to be "slaves" or "sissies" (some do, most don't... and most women, certainly, don't find that attractive in a man). They become more attentive because you're sharing more intimacy... and people who are close and loving like to do nice things for each other.

Clearly, if there's no intimacy between you now because you don't want it or like it, then trying to "force" it with male chastity is going to be a disaster for both of you. Because if your relationship is bad, and you can't stand the sight of each other, or your wife's skin crawls when you so much as touch her... the odds are male chastity is simply going to make things a lot worse for you both.

If that's how your relationship is -- and you really do need to ask yourself some tough questions and answer them with brutal honesty -- you really ought to set about fixing your relationship first before anything else.

And if it can't be fixed (and that's always possible, and in the long term, if that's true then the sooner you discover this the better), then you perhaps might want to think about ending it.

Strong words, I know.

But true, for all that.

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