How many times have you heard someone say "Boy, I wish this person would butt out of my sex life?" Probably quite a few. And it's not necessarily just family and parents! Could be their other peers and co workers as well. Sometimes it is unintentional, in the break room at work, you may share with another person, "that girl is hot. I just can't stop looking at her." And before you know it, this co worker is up in your business, peering over your cubicle, excited about his secret bond with you, urging to check every girl out and maybe even asking about you and your partner. Big mistake. It's hard to know when to do it and when not to. You must be very good at reading people.
A lot of times the mess starts at work the first time you come in a little late with messed up hair and bags under your eyes yet can't stop smiling. It only really takes one detailed comment like "She just didn't want to stop" or "once I saw her naked I didn't care I had to work in the morning" to get some people who maybe aren't having sex to always ask you questions. Not to mention these questions could come at the wrong time, when HR or some other dickhead middle management is listening in for dirt.
Women seem to share more than men off the bat, but they can become easily offended when asked a lot about their sex life. This usually happens when the woman asking hardly knows the other. And I'm not talking about questions like "Do you think that guy is cute?" More directed questions about what they are doing and who they are doing it with. And if someone is queer and not straight, even in today's lax society, you REALLY have to watch what you say. Especially if you are OK with it and you start asking about their partner, what they do, in front of other people, now that person is really going to want you on a one way ticket out of their business, and fast.
If you are eyeing your friend's partner and start asking about details involving their sex life, then you are really asking for it. Man, will that dude ever want you out of their business. They can tell! They know what's up. Actually, you may be able to get away with asking about a couple of juicy details like oral sex and what she looks like naked, but if you have ever mentioned to him that you yourself are attracted to her that's a BIG reason to stay out of their business. The last thing you want is to spoil an old friendship and not even get a chance to lay your hands on her! The party would totally be over before the keg is even tapped.
Now that the holidays are upon us, your family may really want to know about your sexual business. Sometimes that's OK. Between brothers and sisters, secrets could potentially be well kept. From parents and people like aunt and uncles though... Be careful. If not married yet, they may try to befriend you and get you to talk about your sex escapades then later tell mom and dad you aren't married yet because of all this casual sex. Why risk feeling bad and guilty under the Christmas tree this year? Keep them guessing and get hitched when you are good and ready, if ever.
A lot of times these things happen in the bars during holidays. These days you just may want to stay single awhile longer till the economic mess clears. All we have to say is if you are sick of secrets, sick of gossip, and sick of questions, you can go off the grid for awhile, don't answer your email and just keep them guessing. When the hottest girl is asked what she is doing and says "wouldn't you like to know?" uh, Yeah, you'd like to know. You can't fool us! If you look like a model.. We probably would love to know what you're doing. We can't help it; these are secrets as sweet as Christie Brinkley in National Lampoons' Vacation. Well, since it's almost Christmas, Chevy Chase is probably back home getting the lights up and dreaming about the hot department store girl. Damn. I know I am. Till next time and happy holidays!
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