Is She Into Me? STOP! Don't Waste Your Time on a Woman Who Will NEVER Feel the Same Way

By Megan Zoile

Q: Is she into me? How can I tell? What are the signs? What can I do to tell if she likes me?

And what can I do if I think she doesn't? Maybe she's playing REALLY hard to get... or wants me to come on a bit stronger than I have? Or maybe I should just throw in the towel and move on to someone else? The truth is, we get a lot of questions from readers about how to tell if a woman DIGS us... or whether they are playing a game, or acting out a script to pretend they don't... when quietly, and secretly they want us to keep coming on strong.

Here is the truth. (and something LOTS of men do not want to hear..:-)

Sometimes, she's just not into you! And there MAY be nothing you can do to change her mind... nor, should you, as figuring out exactly what it is that she wants is going to be a lot more stressful than moving on to someone else who is.

Let's take a quick look at some common signs that a woman is just NOT interested... even if you think your chances are good!

1 - The Art of Ambiguity

Every time you ask her to make plans, ask her out, invite her for coffee, to study together or even just hang out at all, she can't commit, but doesn't give you a definitive NO. For example - a woman who tells you to call her at 11am for a potential noon lunch date to check if she's available.

Or, a girl who says I may be free... text me on Tuesday and I'll let you know how my schedule looks.

The truth is, a woman who DOES dig you... is going to go out of her to be available, EVEN if she plays hard to get a wee bit before the relationship is on stable ground.

2 - Speaking of an aloof attitude...

There is a huge difference between a girl who plays hard to get and makes you work for it... versus a woman who is ambivalent or seems like she could be just as happy watching TV at home, versus joining you for a rocking time on the town. Hard to get IS a game... but it's a game that most men can understand and intuit, when it's being played for real. Hard to get doesn't mean dispassionate, or disinterested... which quite often, many of the "written for men" online dating guides neglect to understand.

Lastly, remember that women's tastes and type vary widely. Just because you are an attractive, athletic, successful, and generally good guy... does not mean that this is what every woman is looking for. Believe it or not, I have friends who couldn't care less about some men that EVERYONE thinks are the catch of the century... and are attracted to others that most of us wouldn't give a second glimpse.

Understanding that the universe works in mysterious ways is often the BEST way to get over rejection that there is... and move on to the next person who MAY be looking for you!

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