Take a risk and maintain the excitement and passion in your relationship for longer with these naughty ideas:
1. Be Innovative:
Nothing gets your heart racing faster than the unexpected. Leave monotony at the door and blow your partners' mind with something a bit out of the ordinary; kiss your partner while they are on the phone or give them oral sex in the middle of a phone call. Try surprising your partner by waiting naked for him when he comes home or tell him you're not wearing any panties under your skirt while out for dinner.
Nothing gets your heart racing faster than the unexpected. Leave monotony at the door and blow your partners' mind with something a bit out of the ordinary; kiss your partner while they are on the phone or give them oral sex in the middle of a phone call. Try surprising your partner by waiting naked for him when he comes home or tell him you're not wearing any panties under your skirt while out for dinner.
Try having sex ANYWHERE except the bedroom for a whole week- the kitchen, the bath, the lounge, the car, on the beach- the possibilities are endless!
This is a fantastic way of bringing back the feeling of passion into your relationship; by the end of the week you will feel like a teenager again!
2. Even grown-ups like to play with toys:
Some women say they feel nervous about introducing a toy into the bedroom or worried that their partner will feel threatened or insecure or that straight sex is not exciting enough. The truth is most men find it an incredible turn on to see you in the throws of passion. Try lying naked and playing with your toy waiting for your partner to come home, when he comes in and finds you about to orgasm dinner will be the last thing on his mind!
Some women say they feel nervous about introducing a toy into the bedroom or worried that their partner will feel threatened or insecure or that straight sex is not exciting enough. The truth is most men find it an incredible turn on to see you in the throws of passion. Try lying naked and playing with your toy waiting for your partner to come home, when he comes in and finds you about to orgasm dinner will be the last thing on his mind!
Introduce a couples' vibrator or couples' ring- the Swan Eternal, we-vibe and the Lelo Tor are all great toys for beginners. Many women find that they cannot orgasm with penetration alone and need a bit more stimulation and foreplay to bring them to orgasm. Have you ever found yourself faking an orgasm during sex just to please your partner? Or do you feel guilty if you don't come? I know I have in the past. Introducing a sex toy to your lovemaking can allow you experience the joy and intimacy of simultaneous orgasm.
3. Plan an affair with your partner:
Sounds crazy, but it's incredibly arousing. Arrive separately at a bar and pretend you don't know each other. Catch his eye across the room and the seduction game begins... You're guaranteed to have the most passionate, exciting and illicit sex when you get home.
Sounds crazy, but it's incredibly arousing. Arrive separately at a bar and pretend you don't know each other. Catch his eye across the room and the seduction game begins... You're guaranteed to have the most passionate, exciting and illicit sex when you get home.
4. Role play:
Explore and indulge your wildest or kinkiest fantasies. Wearing a costume or sexy lingerie is a great way to spice up your love making and make you feel like a true sex goddess. You may want to experiment with a school girl fantasy, French maid, stripper or prostitute. The possibilities are only limited by your imagination.
Explore and indulge your wildest or kinkiest fantasies. Wearing a costume or sexy lingerie is a great way to spice up your love making and make you feel like a true sex goddess. You may want to experiment with a school girl fantasy, French maid, stripper or prostitute. The possibilities are only limited by your imagination.
5. Tie and Tease:
Drive your partner wild by tying them up blindfolded and naked so they don't know what you have in store for them. The sensation of having their sense of control removed can be incredibly erotic; particularly for people who are employed in high-powered positions. So have some fun; this is a great time to introduce sensory play- run ice over their body, drip a body candle on them, caress them with a feather or touch with satin.
Drive your partner wild by tying them up blindfolded and naked so they don't know what you have in store for them. The sensation of having their sense of control removed can be incredibly erotic; particularly for people who are employed in high-powered positions. So have some fun; this is a great time to introduce sensory play- run ice over their body, drip a body candle on them, caress them with a feather or touch with satin.
6. Feel sexy, Act sexy, Be sexy:
Sexual allure and attraction begins with your mind. When you're feeling sexy your body language will reflect this... an instant turn on for your partner. So banish any thoughts that "my tummy's not flat enough" or "my breasts are too small" and instead leave the light on and tease your partner with an erotic strip tease, flaunt your body and let your partner to soak up the erotic display.
Sexual allure and attraction begins with your mind. When you're feeling sexy your body language will reflect this... an instant turn on for your partner. So banish any thoughts that "my tummy's not flat enough" or "my breasts are too small" and instead leave the light on and tease your partner with an erotic strip tease, flaunt your body and let your partner to soak up the erotic display.
7. Get comfortable naked:
We are all different and no-one has a perfect body- a visit to a clothes optional beach is a great way to put this into perspective for you! Feeling OK with your body naked will make you so much more sexy and desirable. There may be something in particular about your body that your partner finds irresistible so work it! Maybe try wearing body jewellery to accentuate your best feature.
We are all different and no-one has a perfect body- a visit to a clothes optional beach is a great way to put this into perspective for you! Feeling OK with your body naked will make you so much more sexy and desirable. There may be something in particular about your body that your partner finds irresistible so work it! Maybe try wearing body jewellery to accentuate your best feature.
8. Focus on foreplay:
Foreplay prepares your body for sex and makes the orgasm more intense, so spend extra time caressing, exploring, teasing and stimulating each other and you will both end up having better sex.
Foreplay prepares your body for sex and makes the orgasm more intense, so spend extra time caressing, exploring, teasing and stimulating each other and you will both end up having better sex.
Abstaining from sex builds sexual tension. Try giving each other a naked sensual massage; engage in foreplay only without any intercourse; bring your partner to the edge of climax before stopping and starting again- this will drive them wild!
9. Send a sexy text:
Tease and excite your partner by sending a sexy photo or naughty message about what you would like to do with them you next see them.
Tease and excite your partner by sending a sexy photo or naughty message about what you would like to do with them you next see them.
10. Watch porn together:
Get in the mood together by watching a naughty movie. These days it is easy to download and watch porn and there is a huge range of genres so no matter what turns you on, you are likely to find something that sparks your interest and inspires your love making. If they typical porn is really not your thing, try checking out some amateur porn for a more realistic and naturalistic slant... and if you're feeling adventurous you can even try making your own and play it while you make love.
Get in the mood together by watching a naughty movie. These days it is easy to download and watch porn and there is a huge range of genres so no matter what turns you on, you are likely to find something that sparks your interest and inspires your love making. If they typical porn is really not your thing, try checking out some amateur porn for a more realistic and naturalistic slant... and if you're feeling adventurous you can even try making your own and play it while you make love.
11. Create some sexy memories.
Keep your sex life from going stale by planning sexual adventures together. The memories you create will not only strengthen your bond but also staves off boredom and fuels fantasies.
Keep your sex life from going stale by planning sexual adventures together. The memories you create will not only strengthen your bond but also staves off boredom and fuels fantasies.
While ever there is love and trust in your relationship nothing is off limits. Together you can indulge in as many kinky ideas and fantasies as your imagination can take you. When the common goal is exploring ways to improve your sex life your relationship will stand the test of time and remain passionate as you explore the possibilities.
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