I Think My Ex Wants Me Back!

By Shanyn Coblentz

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Sometimes an ex will give you "signals" (which really end up being false). If you had a certain thing you used to do when you saw each other- such as a certain look that only you two knew about- this would be an example. If when you happen to see him or her, they give you that look, you may think they still want to be together. It may be just a manipulation tactic. It may also just be an old habit! Try not to over-think it if it happens to you. See if there are any other signs before jumping to conclusions.

If your ex is wanting to "play the field" with different people, but wants to have you as his go-to person when all else falls through, they may be trying to keep you in their pocket (so to speak). They may just need that ego boost. They may enjoy knowing they can do whatever they want and when they are bored or finished playing around, they have you to go back to. Don't let yourself be that person. Be sure you respect yourself and move on if that's the case. What your ex is doing is for their benefit, not yours, and you'll end up being strung along.

Play hard to get. Don't easily be contacted. Don't return calls right away if they call you. If your ex wants to jump back into seeing each other without talking about the underlying issues of what caused the break-up, chances are the situation will repeat itself. It's just a matter of time before it does. Go do things you enjoy. Spend time with people you enjoy being with. Take time out away from your ex. Also, you'll make better decisions after stepping away from the situation for a while.

Don't rely on your ex for your happiness and don't let them rely on you. Find ways to be happy without having anyone around you. Be happy with and as yourself and you will find yourself making better relationship choices. You won't approach relationships out of a sense of lacking something. Those you do meet will ADD to your happiness but you won't rely on them for it. If your ex is relying on you for his or her happiness, the same applies. Until they are happy without you, they probably won't ever be TRULY happy with anyone.

In the end, if you are meant to be together, it will work out that way. Don't try to force a relationship that shouldn't be. You'll be opening yourself up for unnecessary heartache. Treat yourself well and expect others to do the same.

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