In a world where people are obsessed with fast foods and instant pleasure, it is no wonder that very few people are really happy. People are obsessed with using shortcuts to get what they want and they tend to apply this even when it comes to sex. Today, one-night-stands and no-strings-attached relationships are common and many people are proud of these relationships because they think it is a modern thing to do. The truth is that having such relationships usually robs sex of its true sensual spirituality and thus engaging in them is a sure way to short-change yourself so far as sexual pleasure and incessant orgasms go.
With nothing else to go after other than physical satisfaction, soulless relationships that do not involve intimacy are usually a cause of most of the problems in the bedroom. This is because focus is usually put on how fast one can have an orgasm and get a release from the sexual urge that has been nagging him. This usually causes a lot of pressure on couples to perform and as sex therapists will tell you, focusing too much on an orgasm is a sure way of either having none or having one that is below your expectations. This pressure is the cause of performance anxiety and thus is also to blame for the increased cases of premature ejaculation.
Without tapping into the spiritual essence of sexual pleasure and awareness, sex is usually rushed with the aim of getting a release from the sexual urge. As a result, sex is viewed as a necessary evil and not as an ally that is supposed to be embraced. This is the root cause of problems in the bedroom since a wrong approach to sex usually leads to repressed feelings, something which usually limits the flow of sexual energy. This therefore usually denies couples the pleasure that having a heightened sexual awareness usually causes. These repressed feelings are what usually lead to common sexual problems such as not being able to last long in bed and erectile dysfunction.
The ideal approach to sexual intercourse is the approach that seeks to combine the body, soul and mind of partners and thus increasing the level of intimacy between couples. With such an approach, a man will find no problem lasting long in bed since by focusing on intimacy, he will be more relaxed and in control of his arousal levels and thus can prevent an early ejaculation for as long as he wishes. A woman is also usually more confident and secure under such an environment and thus free to tap into her reserves of sexual pleasure. This is the type of sex that leads to mind-blowing orgasms and sexual pleasure that is timeless.
Simon Stewart is a life coach, writer and author on how to stop premature ejaculation and last longer in bed. His efforts have been instrumental in helping thousands of men and women to have better sex and healthier relationships.
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