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Feeling insecure around women can drive you crazy, because you can end up finding yourself looking back on a situation where things didn't go so well with a woman and realizing that you could have done things a little differently had you not felt any insecurities at all. We all know that we act differently when insecurity starts to creep in, and if you find that it tends to creep in a little bit too often, you might want to try to find a way to change that so that you don't have any more of those situations that you look back on and realize that it was your insecurity that killed your chances with a woman.
Here's how to lose your insecurities around women:
1. You have to gain experience being around women to end up feeling comfortable around them.
I remember talking to a guy who was complaining about having a lack of confidence in the presence of a woman and the first thing that I asked was how many female friends did he have, not counting relatives and co-workers. His answer? None. That tends to be a common theme with guys who lack confidence around women. They aren't used to being around women that much and when they are... it's an experience that they have a hard time with. When you do have a lot of experience just being around women on a day to day basis, it won't be such a new experience and you'll tend to gain confidence just from that.
2. Learn to become detached from the outcome when you are talking to a woman.
If you constantly have these thoughts about the way that things are going to play out when you are talking to a woman, you are going to end up feeling insecure. That is just the way that it works. On the other hand, if you can learn to detach yourself from the outcome and just BE, you'll find that it is easier to feel relaxed and confident even when you are talking to a really good looking woman.
The reality is that you might always feel a little bit of insecurity when you are around a woman, especially if she is really attractive to you. The key is to be able to get to a point where it doesn't become an obstacle as far as getting a date or getting a phone number goes or even making a good impression when you are on a first date with a woman.
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